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LMAO you said she looked like her mother... Smoooth..

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Congratulations on having enough sense to at least ask.

When I was still in high school, there was a girl I was into - I never asked her out though because I was shy. I regretted it for the longest time, until I found out she was into a guy that I see as a dickhead. After making this discovery I dismissed her as someone I would have an intimate relationship with (that probably sounds a bit shallow on my part, but I'm not really into short and sweet relationships - I'd like something meaningful with a reasonable lifespan that could eventually end in the raising of a family).
I'm still always there for her, and that's the problem. She'll still always be taking me for granted. I'm not the most socially adept, and I often miss a lot of subtleties that wouldn't go un-noticed by most other people, but I can pick up on the under-the-rug comments that suggest I don't have to be treated as well as others for the person to have my loyalty.

QUOTE (Joby @ Dec 29 2008, 04:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ahh man, I hate to say it but it sounds like you're the "nice guy" type. The one girls like only as friends..

I'm not surprised that someone mentioned this. I think this is the case because the 'nice guy' is always there for everyone.
Relationship-wise this is highly problematic for a few reasons: why enter into a relationship with a 'nice guy' when you can have a relationship with someone else and still always have the 'nice guy' there ready and waiting.
I'm not naive enough to tar all girls with the same brush, but I believe many start to take such guys for granted.
What really irritates me with girls like this though is that they're the same girls that are forever complaining about all of the hardship that they go through: they want a partner that does X, Y and Z, treats them nicely, etc - the 'nice guy' is right there, but he just gets ignored. It doesn't make any sense at all.

On another note, this question is for the females that use the board: Do you write a guy off as a potential partner if you've already reached that 'close friends' stage? Sorry for the hijack, but it's kinda related to the OPs post anyway seeing as that might have been this particular girl's reason for not wanting to date him.

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QUOTE (Silent_Dirge @ Dec 29 2008, 03:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
(For those wanting to know what she looks like, Imagine Melonqueen, but without the melons icon_wink.gif )

I lol'd so hard when I read this. Don't know why. : )

QUOTE (Joby @ Dec 29 2008, 03:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ahh man, I hate to say it but it sounds like you're the "nice guy" type. The one girls like only as friends..

You're a nice guy Dirge. You know it, I know it. People are bitches.
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And Dohregard - LOL is all I have to say to you.

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QUOTE (lisa! @ Dec 29 2008, 11:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
And Dohregard - LOL is all I have to say to you.



wut?


@Joby - Nice Guys get the hot chicks when you get older, fyi icon_biggrin.gif

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She sounds like the worst chick you could get together with. Seriously.
"Something tremendously powerful was lost when composers moved away from tonal harmony and regular pulses... Among other things the audience was lost" -John Adams

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QUOTE (Dohregard @ Dec 30 2008, 02:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've been tempted to do it without a condom (and no other birth control)... and it took a lot in me to say no... lol!

cuz you right there and your both already naked... AHHH!!!


To be honest, spinning the wheel of fate with your dick makes the game so much more interesting. Casual sex can get really boring if you don't add a pinch of risk to the broth.

I think you should add to her problems by spreading to her friends and your co-workers that she has some form of STI, just for shits and giggles.


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QUOTE (Verrückter @ Dec 29 2008, 12:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She sounds like the worst chick you could get together with. Seriously.

/agree

@Dirge: dude, it's not that bad. At least you didn't get too far before you found out.
It's only the first date...

oh wait nvm. I'm just slow.

I'll not bother you.

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QUOTE (Le Kobra @ Dec 29 2008, 12:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Casual sex can get really boring if you don't add a pinch of risk to the broth.



Casual sex is boring. Making Love is SO much better.

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QUOTE (Dohregard @ Dec 29 2008, 05:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
you are lucky she didn't attach to you, or else that could have been YOUR kid.

Damn do I know it icon_wink.gif

QUOTE (Mantrousse @ Dec 29 2008, 05:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ahaha. However, if i'm honest my bro, you're pretty stupid if you don't take the proper precautions to avoid pregnancy happening. Of course you could take the precautions and she could still become pregnant, but it really doesn't sound like that for this girl - lol.

Besides: i could've sworn it shows you care MUCH more when you say "let's be safe" rather than "FLOOD GATES R OPENIN!!!".

I think her wanting a kid may have been a result of her husbands death (seriously, married at 17 in this day and age?). She is also genetically inable to have kids, thus the miscarriages. This one will probably be a miscarry too.

QUOTE (#CaMer0n @ Dec 29 2008, 07:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LMAO you said she looked like her mother... Smoooth..

haha don't rub it in! I was somehow compelled to say that! icon_razz.gif

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I'm not surprised that someone mentioned this. I think this is the case because the 'nice guy' is always there for everyone.
Relationship-wise this is highly problematic for a few reasons: why enter into a relationship with a 'nice guy' when you can have a relationship with someone else and still always have the 'nice guy' there ready and waiting.

Yeah thats probably the reason why I showed so much concern over her sudden change in behavior and such.

Meh


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Wow man that sucks hardcore, life's a bitch?

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QUOTE (Verrückter @ Dec 29 2008, 12:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She sounds like the worst chick you could get together with. Seriously.


This.

The last thing you want to do is get with a chick thats thousands in debt and has a fuckton of emotional scars.

Also, renting for 700$ a month you could easily get by with 1 person making 10/hr working 40hrs a week.



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wait... you work at a bakery?
SPAMBOTSTOOKOVERMYSITE D:
Give me LoL Referals.

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ALL HAIL THE GREAT AND MIGHTY MOTH!

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QUOTE (way2lazy2care @ Dec 29 2008, 12:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wait... you work at a bakery?

For a year and a half now. I bake/Clerk. Its for a Grocery store >_<

It has its ups and downs, Like when i used to do night shifts (1am-9:30 am) I was pissed off that I was working those hours. So, I made the Pepperoni sticks, French and baguette bread all phallic shaped pp_smiley4.gif


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QUOTE (Verrückter @ Dec 29 2008, 01:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She sounds like the worst chick you could get together with. Seriously.


This, two miscarriages, married once, tried to stab her brother? Seriously, the whole "i've been married before," would scare me off enough, I know its hard, but seriously just move on this chick obviously isn't worth your time.
QUOTE (Tree_ @ May 20 2009, 10:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jamie, just go smoke some crack; you'll feel better.


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sounds like she doesnt think of u half as much as u think of her.

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QUOTE (-Checkmate- @ Dec 29 2008, 03:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
sounds like she doesnt think of u half as much as u think of her.


She sounds like shes just playing with him, e.g. blowing him kisses, then seeing another guy on the side (guy she got with that he found out via facebook).
QUOTE (Tree_ @ May 20 2009, 10:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jamie, just go smoke some crack; you'll feel better.


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QUOTE (Jamie @ Dec 29 2008, 02:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
This, two miscarriages, married once, tried to stab her brother?


that'd be enough to scare me off. The Married thing doesn't bother me.


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That girl didnt like you like that. Sorry.

And she was a coward to boot. No loss on your behalf.

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QUOTE (Dr.Toker @ Dec 29 2008, 04:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
That girl didnt like you like that. Sorry.

And she was a coward to boot. No loss on your behalf.


Not a coward.. more like a tease. She strung him along because she didn't want to give up that no-follow-through-flirting and attention she was getting from him. Or at least that's what I got from it. I'm assuming that she felt if he had an answer like, "I don't like you" then he would move on instead of feeling hopeful around her and making her feel all special. I don't mean to seem too judgemental as she apparently had a traumatic experience but, I do agree.. there was no loss on his behalf. If you look at where she's at now icon_confused.gif

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lol no offense man, but from your story it sounds like she's not worth your time. she may be cute and everything, and she may be down on her luck, but pregnant 3 times before 21? come on.

time to MOVE ON! icon_biggrin.gif
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chewing gum is sassy enough, let alone the extra fuck you of blowing a bubble




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